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What can porn actually do for your relationship?

Watching porn can bring you closer together in the bedroom.

Watching porn can bring you closer together in the bedroom.

Porn is a touchy subject, especially for those in relationships. Although it may seem as if your man isn't into you because of his porn choices, this may not be true.

Porn is becoming more mainstream, and may be exactly the thing your relationship needs to get to that next level. If you're considering watching porn with your man, or maybe already do, keep these tips in mind.

  • Be open to new ideas: Although you think you know your partner well, it can be hard for some to express what they want in bed, especially for the first time. Talk in a quiet, private place where you both feel comfortable and are ready to express yourselves completely. 
  • Keep lines of communication open: Porn can get real weird, real fast. Scroll through some of the categories with your guy and talk about what you're into to, open to learning more about and never, ever want to click on.
  • Understand it's directed: If something in the scene you're watching seems too good to be true, such as a position or the amount of time it lasts, it probably is. Your sex life doesn't have to mimic the scene to the tee, but instead can inspire you to give it your own twist. 

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