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Are you interested in a threesome?

A threesome could be the answer to what you have been looking for in your relationship.

A threesome could be the answer to what you have been looking for in your relationship.

Threesomes are becoming less taboo than ever before. Yes, you read that right: threesomes are here to stay. Once touted as a male-driven desire, couples are considering threesomes as just another thing to try in the bedroom, something equal to bringing in a toy or a sexy fantasy.

It's not just men either, ladies, but you probably already knew that. Recent data from Pornhub found that threesome is one of the most popular searches, second only to lesbian, and most often searched by women.

For some married Millennials, changing it up in the bedroom can add an exciting element to the relationship. 

"We're in this for the long haul, and we understand that to keep things fresh, we're going to want to experiment from time to time," said an anonymous source in a recent Cosmopolitan article centered on threesomes. 

So who's actually doing it?

According to a survey conducted by the sex toy company Lelo, 20 percent of women said they had a threesome in 2014, an increase from 10 percent in 2012.

If you're interested in exploring the idea of a threesome, keep the following tips in mind:

  • Be vocal in what you actually desire: Threesomes can get a bit complicated, especially if it's your first one. Let your partners know what you're looking for and what you're not into.
  • It's not just a two girls, one guy thing: Threesomes are three people, plain and simple. If you want to bring another man into the mix, let your guys know.
  • Stay in the moment: Although this may seem silly, thinking too much will ruin the moment. When the time comes, focus on the feeling instead.

Whether you're having a threesome or just sex with your partner, be sure to use protection. Today Sponge is a birth control with no hormones viable for up to 24 hours. Learn more on our website